Emanuel Valeri & Tania Kelhet!

A wonderful dance couple full of passion and enthusiasm combined with laser focused discipline.  Dancing full time all across the globe we explore the personal side and deeper focused partnership of one of the world’s top Amateur Ballroom couples, Emanuel Valeri & Tania Kehlet, after a training session and just days before the world championships at the German Open in Stuttgart.

Congratulations on your recent success in Thailand!
Emanuel & Tania: Thank you! (smiles)

What started it all for you Emanuel & Tania? When did you begin dancing and what started it?
Emanuel: I began around 7 years old and I started because my grandmother was going to dance, I was with her because my mother and father were working. For fun I started. My first competition I won in Italy and immediately started taking competition seriously.
Tania: I started when I was 3 ½ years old because I was doing children’s modelling, catwalk type fashion shows and I had no clue what I was doing and the people, they wanted me to dance in time with the music. I was just running back and forward to the music. So they said to my mum if they could take me to the dance school to learn how to walk.

So, now you can outwalk everyone on the catwalk?
Tania: Not sure! (laughs)

In the last 8 weeks you have you’ve been dancing in Poland, China, Sweden, Thailand and now the U.K
Emanuel: Correct!

That is a lot of travelling! At your level of dancing how do you pay for this travel?
Emanuel:  We are invited so our expenses like, flights and hotel accommodation, are paid for. Of course there is prize money, so every other week we compete for the prize money.  90% of competitions we are invited.
Tania: The major competitions, like Blackpool, International and U.K we are not invited and pay for ourselves.

Wow! Sounds like a great level for aspiring dancers to aim towards.
Emanuel & Tania: Yes it is!

It is a lot of hard work, obviously, and you’re very competitive
Emanuel:  You need to be able to take time in a correct way, because sometimes it can be too much . So you need to know when is your limit.

So do you turn down competitions?
Emanuel: Yes, we do.
Tania: Blackpool time, like the whole of May, we just focus for Blackpool. We want to stay hungry for the competitions. It’s the same before the Worlds. We don’t compete 3 weeks before the Worlds. So we feel motivated!
Emanuel:  We have to choose our competitions, like if we get 2 invitations on same weekend we only choose 1.

Well, congratulations on working to that position!
Emanuel & Tania: (smiles and laughs)

Are you teaching as well during all this?
Emanuel: Yes, we have been teaching in Italy, China, Iceland, wherever they call us – we go!

Because of this continuous global dance circuit you are on, do you have specific coaches you see at certain times of the year?
Emanuel: Yes
Tania: Our main coaches are in Denmark, Italy and in the U.K

Everything is very planned and specific then?
Emanuel: Very much, a lot of planning.

At some levels of sport, athletes normally get a team together to assist them with planning, organizing and preparing for competitions, do you have anybody to assist you?
Tania: Us! We are the team!
Emanuel:  We are training, booking flights and structure the work ourselves.
Tania: In the beginning we were getting help from our parents, but not anymore. We are also part of Team Denmark which is an association that helps the top athletes in Denmark in every sport. We get some money from them and if we get injured we get some physiotherapy and help.  So that’s also  kind of a team!

A great team! In terms of training, what is a typical training session with Emanuel & Tania involve? I assume you don’t just turn up and start dancing!
Emanuel: It is depending on which period. If it is before a comp or after a big comp. We adapt the practice to the period. For example: We practice much harder before Blackpool than in July.

Stamina training?
Emanuel & Tania: Everything!
Emanuel: For example: Normally when we have period with less competition we focus on improving something big. When we are closer to the competition we are not trying to improve we are focusing towards the comp. So it is different.

Do you practice and study technique or just focus on dynamics?
Tania: Yes, we study.
Emanuel: Depending on what we need to improve. For a period it could be drive action. So we focus on the drive action for a period.

Do you feel you practice until a point you feel you’ve really got it? Or is that sometimes limited by the amount of competitions you are doing?
Emanuel: This is the problem. Sometimes there are so many competitions, it is quite difficult to divide time. We have almost 2 competitions every month so you have to be always ready. It also depends what comp you’ve got to do. If it’s just before Blackpool, 2 weeks before you can’t work on drive action, it must be there or it’s too late! But straight after Blackpool, you don’t need to do stamina. We have a lot of variety.

Length of training time?
Emanuel: At least 3 hours per day. Outside that we have ballet, gym or lesson.  We dance up to 5 hours per day.

At lot of hard work! Is there anything special you do before the bigger competitions? Increase ballet lessons, dieting etc?
Emanuel: Before the majors, we prepare a list of goals. What we want to achieve. Like what we want to achieve performance wise, we set a goal. And then, we work out what to eat, increase stamina practice, increase performance practice to condition the body.

So you obviously love dancing! Are you together as a couple or do you somehow manage a personal relationship outside of dancing?
Emanuel:  We are together! We have been together for 8 years

When you started dancing?
Tania: 6 months after!

Now Tania do you have any advice for lady dancers out there? Hair tips, dress tips? Any advice in general?
Tania: I personally believe a lot in the 50/50 partnership. I don’t think women are aware of how important they are both mentally and dancing wise. You will never have a good man if you don’t improve as well. In terms of dress, it’s difficult. I love that side a lot!

Anything not to do? Fashion no-no’s?
Tania: Lots of stuff! Dresses too long – like I had at the U.K (laughs) I covered the floor in feathers too.
Emanuel: But you get a lot of inspiration from fashion world.
Tania: Yes, I design dresses. Outside of dancing and I get a lot of inspiration from the outside fashion world, not from ballroom dancing.

Do you sell those dresses or just the designs?
Tania: I design for myself and just sell the designs to a Danish company.

And you, Emanuel? What do you like outside of dancing?
Emanuel: Sports in general. My favourite sport is football. Play a bit of tennis, swim. Not too much because I don’t have enough time. Theatre is good and I really like music. Playstation is fun too – in the night! (laughs) I am a normal person, I don’t just close in my room and read books.

And do you have many friends throughout the dance world?
Emanuel: Of course! But on the competition floor, we have no friends. (laughs) In a competition everyone is there to beat each other, I think this is normal. But outside we should be able to have fun.  It is like the working world normal people have office jobs and friends, we are the same.

Do you have any advice for aspiring dancers?
Emanuel: A LOT of sacrifice and hard work!
Tania: Make sure you make it fun! If it is not fun while you’re working, you should retire.
Emanuel: You must enjoy the teaching, travelling, and competitions. If you get to tired you’re not enjoying it.
Tania: Set up your goals, make a plan and then follow the plan. I think many people make the goal, sometimes make the plan but they don’t follow it.

Do you think that is what separates you from other dancers?
Emanuel: I believe it is the work. Hard work and everyday. If you don’t put it in, you cannot expect to have a lot back.

You’ve got time on your side then!
Emanuel: You must plan good! (laughs)

Anything you would like to add?
Emanuel: Hard work, have fun and you must have passion!

Thank you very much for your time Emanuel & Tania and good luck!
Emanuel & Tania: No problem! Thank you. 

Interview by Vaughan Liddicoat from Onestepdanceshop.com

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